tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post114505545189385885..comments2024-03-28T09:41:36.745-07:00Comments on She Just Walks Around With It: D-I-V-O-R-C-E (Part I of God Knows How Many)kristyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00879301751663532121noreply@blogger.comBlogger68125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-41578703877673887812015-08-27T02:48:57.795-07:002015-08-27T02:48:57.795-07:00I want to share a very wonderful testimony about ...I want to share a very wonderful testimony about Dr.Samur the spell caster who help me get my ex back when he left me for another lady, i contacted so many spell caster but non could help me bring him back until i contacted Dr.Samur and explain everything to him, he told me not to worry cause i am going to get him back in 3 days with love-spell, power of his gods and forefathers, i trusted in him and did everything he ask me to do, i hopefully wait for the result to my greatest surprise my ex called me and apologize for the pains he has cause me,now we are both happy together and even more in love than before, if you are out there and you are looking for a solution to any problem kindly contact Dr.Samur through his email address on: drsamuraspellcaster@hotmail.com<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10059487636259553074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-87590832259137012992012-10-10T06:10:02.240-07:002012-10-10T06:10:02.240-07:00I can just imagine how hard and awkward those scen...I can just imagine how hard and awkward those scenarios were. What you have gone through was difficult, and I admire you for your strength throughout that period. We all want to live the life we dreamed of, and most of the time, that matters the most. :)Darcy Nimmonshttp://familylawjax.com/divorce-attorney-jacksonville-fl/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-35947588142334238282012-07-25T17:42:10.657-07:002012-07-25T17:42:10.657-07:00Can you blame them for takin you to court? It'...Can you blame them for takin you to court? It's called taking responsibility for your actions and realizing there's consequences. If i'd had paid a lot of "NON-REFUNDABLE deposits" only for you to "high-tail it out of there as fast as you could" I would have taken you to court too. Sounds like you were / are a little on the immature side.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-87857219282624737682010-04-30T15:46:49.120-07:002010-04-30T15:46:49.120-07:00Love your blog and am just starting to read the hi...Love your blog and am just starting to read the history. NOte: You wrote this on my birthday 4 years ago...it was the day I decided something had to change (I was turning 30) and I embarked a crazy sometime narcissistic trip that has gotten me, well, here.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02273133658954276204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-9800468783706585132010-03-05T23:13:00.131-08:002010-03-05T23:13:00.131-08:00I follow you on twitter but embarrassingly admit t...I follow you on twitter but embarrassingly admit that I've never read your blog until now and have spent probably 45 minutes of my Friday night reading. You are an excellent writer. Seriously. I wish I had your skills. I have nothing of substance really to add to this I just wanted to share and say I enjoy. 'tis all. <br /><br />--Kristi<br />kristiMaristi.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-34360762585578653512010-03-02T07:12:23.894-08:002010-03-02T07:12:23.894-08:00It appears it has been about a year and a half sin...It appears it has been about a year and a half since the last post, but I'm reading all this b/c I just submitted my prom pic and somehow found myself sucked in.<br /><br />Everyone has already said better things than I can come up with, certainly more compassionate. I want you to know, though, I have always hated vacationing. I would rather stay home. I have always had a panicky feeling I'm doing something wrong and have some deficiency. Your metaphor about a shoe that just won't fit, however, is incredibly validating. I just don't like going places and doing things.<br /><br />My wife will not be happy to hear this, because we have a low-grade, chronic war going on about vacation. Thanks, though. at least from me.Wallynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-2869201254852394562008-08-06T10:36:00.000-07:002008-08-06T10:36:00.000-07:00Holla sista!!!!I loved the shoe analogy (I think I...Holla sista!!!!<BR/><BR/>I loved the shoe analogy (I think I will have to reuse that one)<BR/><BR/>Also you could have been drinking martinis all day 'stead of Home depoting with mom in law (actually home depoting might have been better if you HAD had a few martinis preshopping).ms. blisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05536014741841111108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-44440795873327204092008-03-05T07:17:00.000-08:002008-03-05T07:17:00.000-08:00Wow. I did the exact same thing. I settled on a ...Wow. I did the exact same thing. I settled on a so so pair of shoes. Had two children and then realized the shoes were never going to fit. I have been divorced for almost a year now and never been happier. Thanks for that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-45378495358262019902007-12-13T13:05:00.000-08:002007-12-13T13:05:00.000-08:00The shoe analogy is is so true. Thanks for your s...The shoe analogy is is so true. Thanks for your story - I admire your courage.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-9563422644626680232007-10-15T15:09:00.000-07:002007-10-15T15:09:00.000-07:00You just might inspire me to blog my own "divorce ...You just might inspire me to blog my own "divorce nightmare"---but I think I need more counseling first. he he.<BR/>Thanks for the read.Sofiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04831065695808776827noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1162306536181900422006-10-31T06:55:00.000-08:002006-10-31T06:55:00.000-08:00P.S. I hate that I can't go back and fix my typos,...P.S. I hate that I can't go back and fix my typos, if your not too busy shoe shopping... would you mind?Jerryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15164680959022088394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1162306412853764162006-10-31T06:53:00.000-08:002006-10-31T06:53:00.000-08:00Hi K,I enjoyed reading this post. I have been marr...Hi K,<BR/><BR/>I enjoyed reading this post. I have been married for 32 years and have never regretted a single day of it. But I could still understand exactly how you felt, not because I've been but because you are a good writer.<BR/><BR/>I enjoyed reading the comments as well... except for anon 2:59. Even when He/She posted an apology of sorts (or maybe it was just an explanation) it upset me. Either anon 2:59 is not able to express themselves adequately or they are just a pair of shoes that are never going to fit me (and are ugly too). I guess that would be like if someone came to your house and made you wear a pair of shoes you never would have tried on in a million years and they didn't fit. You throw them out but for some reason they just keep showing up in your closet.<BR/><BR/>At any rate, thank you for your blog.<BR/><BR/>I don't read your blog regularly... Did I miss a post where you told about how he left.<BR/><BR/>JerryJerryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15164680959022088394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1161832803870436312006-10-25T20:20:00.000-07:002006-10-25T20:20:00.000-07:00That is an excellent analogy! Good for you for re...That is an excellent analogy! Good for you for recognizing your situation didn't suit you and for having the courage to change it. You seem to be very happy now!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145407571263262392006-04-18T17:46:00.000-07:002006-04-18T17:46:00.000-07:00I like to picture you wearing only shoes, yup, wor...I like to picture you wearing only shoes, yup, works for me...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145402895619255532006-04-18T16:28:00.000-07:002006-04-18T16:28:00.000-07:00I'm sure there's a good reason why Anon 2:59 remai...I'm sure there's a good reason why Anon 2:59 remains anonymous. A lot of people will say nasty things, and remain anonymous, in order to not take responsibility, and believe they are clever and got away with something. Poo on them.<BR/><BR/>I just wanted to say welcome back to the phenomenal writing that I've missed...and I think you are incredibly brave, and I admire your growth as a person.KBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08874850488801027673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145398762026682122006-04-18T15:19:00.000-07:002006-04-18T15:19:00.000-07:00I appreciate the warm responses to my comments...=...I appreciate the warm responses to my comments...= \<BR/><BR/>I hadn't known earlier that your blog entries were retrospectives when I wrote my original comments. I think you don't understand where I am coming from--sarcasm aside and whatever else I said---I am not haughty but it is just that your blog (which I encountered accidently) just made me upset and I felt compelled to write something ..Why? You have to understand my perspective: I left my homeland as a refugee to come to America with only my mother and siblings, learned english, struggled all my life and I definitely don't see myself as accomplished- I was trying to be motivating and wanted to tell you that it could be done- having had to deal with so much in my life and working hard all my life I just have always tried to stay positive and motivate others. That's why when I see people worry about such simple things it just makes me upset --- why waste time with such inconsequential things and be passive? Well I realize that you did do something with your life and that is a good thing but the message I was trying to give is that hey - you are doing something but what more can you do? I'm not trying to show off. If I was trying to show off I would not be anonymous. <BR/><BR/>" Obstacles cannot crush me. Every obstacle yields to stern resolve. He who is fixed to a star does not change his mind."<BR/>Leonardo da Vinci<BR/><BR/>Anon 2:59Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145394400542393192006-04-18T14:06:00.000-07:002006-04-18T14:06:00.000-07:00Great entry. I am considering marriage in the som...Great entry. I am considering marriage in the somewhat near future, there's just the one thing that bothers me .... if the shoes fit perfectly now, how can I be sure they're still going to fit 50+ years from now. Surely my feet aren't going to be the same when I'm 80 as they are now. To me, the lifetime commitment of marriage is extremely scary.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145392258349326962006-04-18T13:30:00.000-07:002006-04-18T13:30:00.000-07:00K,I generally only comment when I have something d...K,<BR/><BR/>I generally only comment when I have something different or new to add to the discussion. However, a friend of mine always complains about how he writes these immense, soul-searching entries and gets no comments, while a cheap one-liner gets a million, and then he gets discouraged and doesn't write another meaningful entry for a long time.<BR/><BR/>So, I'm breaking my own rule to tell you that this entry was just plain beautiful. I've never been in this situation (at least not in one where I was married, or even living with the person), but I did feel the emotions, and even though it wasn't a pleasant topic, I enjoyed reading it. Please keep these up! <BR/><BR/>And for the record, I do not find you boring. Sure, I read your blog when I am bored at work. I also read it when I am definitely NOT bored at work. I make time to check your blog from work every single day, even if I am insanely busy, and sometimes on the weekends. You are a joy, and I am so glad I found your blog! :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145385290841875092006-04-18T11:34:00.000-07:002006-04-18T11:34:00.000-07:00Hey Kristy - One of my favorite posts ever. Concur...Hey Kristy - One of my favorite posts ever. Concur with all the claustrophobia comments as well. Someone earlier asked about having to leave someone ever though you were in love with them? That was me, two months before my wedding due to the claustrophobia thing. So so hard. I love and miss him still, but I am a much more whole now. Thank you Kristy, your eloquence is unmatched in the blogosphere.<BR/><BR/>Also, whether or not Kristy is boring is a matter of opinion. I come back here every day because I find that she's not.amberancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16495111316840391202noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145372402488748392006-04-18T08:00:00.000-07:002006-04-18T08:00:00.000-07:00[re-sending; my original posting didn't come throu...[re-sending; my original posting didn't come through]<BR/><BR/>K, you seem to have a little smear of Anon 2:59 on your comments section. Here's a tissue.<BR/><BR/>*wipe, wipe, wipe ... flush*<BR/><BR/>There now, all better. ;o)Carolyn B.https://www.blogger.com/profile/04495864047777103064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145372228568290242006-04-18T07:57:00.000-07:002006-04-18T07:57:00.000-07:00anon, you didn't hurt my feelings. you came here,...anon, you didn't hurt my feelings. you came here, read one post, and presumed to tell me how to live my life, which i find annoying and misguided. you both missed the point of the post and the blog. these entries are retrospectives. they are what inspired me to go out and do something (different) with my life. which i have done*.<BR/><BR/>and i'm actually happy now. <BR/><BR/>whereas you...? well, you seem rather bilious. i mean, for someone as self-assured and pleased with themselves as you purport to be, i find it fascinating that you spend your time reading a blog you find boring, AND going so far as to comment on it. repeatedly. don't you have more important things to be doing? <BR/><BR/><BR/><BR/>*i was going to refrain from outlining what those changes/things were and are, because that's petty. however, i do also find it somewhat stunning that someone would come to my blog -- one with, you know, a few hundred entries -- and tell me i need to work on speaking my mind.kristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00879301751663532121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145363052608085692006-04-18T05:24:00.000-07:002006-04-18T05:24:00.000-07:00and if people give you constructive criticism you ...and if people give you constructive criticism you don't need to get all defensive.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145362856732793112006-04-18T05:20:00.000-07:002006-04-18T05:20:00.000-07:00hey - sorry for hurting your feelings...i was just...hey - sorry for hurting your feelings...i was just bored at work and didn't read everything thoroughly when i wrote my responses. anyway i just found the blog boring ... the first thing i read in your blog was about some firemen incident... anyway it's not like i'm asking you to make the blog entertaining but DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT with your life other than yadda yadda about how much this and that sucks and go out there and do something. <BR/><BR/>~Anon 2:59Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145336221112449212006-04-17T21:57:00.000-07:002006-04-17T21:57:00.000-07:00anonymous 2:59:your original comment was haughty a...anonymous 2:59:<BR/><BR/>your original comment was haughty and presumptuous. <BR/><BR/>your follow-up was even more so. <BR/><BR/>it is YOU who have distilled my life down to "hooking up with a wanna be comedian," not i. i do not measure my life by who i am currently dating, five years after my divorce. why do you? i'm afraid your perception speaks more of you than of me.kristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00879301751663532121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1145322524841991412006-04-17T18:08:00.000-07:002006-04-17T18:08:00.000-07:00Does getting a divorce and hooking up with a wanna...Does getting a divorce and hooking up with a wanna be comedian who is funny-ish make her life better? I don't really care to comment. As anon @ 2:59 I'd like to say--this was my first time on this blog and i don't know this woman's history but I guess I will no longer grace you people with my presence. ta taAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com