tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post112283680855065942..comments2024-03-29T03:42:27.128-07:00Comments on She Just Walks Around With It: To Tell The Truthkristyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00879301751663532121noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-75041605662212950072012-06-29T22:01:45.880-07:002012-06-29T22:01:45.880-07:00Dear K,
I think you are not obliged to share dire...Dear K,<br /><br />I think you are not obliged to share directly your personal URL to someone specially when it's just your first date. Each of us has our own secrets. Anyways I think you don't have to do some stupid thing like you will stop telling us your dating experiences. Lots of us K loves to drop by in your blog and read your inspiring posts. If you really love blogging well let it be. Don't think of those stupid men!African Girlshttp://www.africadarlings.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1123138008044215322005-08-03T23:46:00.000-07:002005-08-03T23:46:00.000-07:00keep sharing the blog before the date. the stuff y...keep sharing the blog before the date. the stuff you put on here is - after all for the entire world to see - so it can't be THAT personal.<BR/><BR/>rather, i think it's a good screening process for the guy - if he likes it, he'll like you. if he doesn't he'll tell you he has to wash his hair that night.<BR/><BR/>and - i think of it as your own personal glossy brochure. c'mon, you even managed to make your bruised behind look glam. (btw, go girl.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1123080590543059112005-08-03T07:49:00.000-07:002005-08-03T07:49:00.000-07:00If you can't take the heat, then get out of the ki...If you can't take the heat, then get out of the kitchen as far as I'm concerned. Tell us your stories! Who cares about the men!Susanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12519224953463428308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1123006387546612122005-08-02T11:13:00.000-07:002005-08-02T11:13:00.000-07:00K- do what feels right to you. Oh, but if you do s...K- do what feels right to <B>you</B>. <BR/><BR/>Oh, but if you do start an anon blog-- make sure to tell ME the address so I can keep up with the storyline (I SWEAR I won't tell anyone!!) :)Terrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00853337661342207301noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1123005129870676652005-08-02T10:52:00.000-07:002005-08-02T10:52:00.000-07:00Mr. One of the 25's response:"You wore that thing,...Mr. One of the 25's response:<BR/><BR/>"You wore that thing, and your hair was that way, and we went to that place and had that drink, then we went to that other place and oh, that's right ... I'm making this up because lying about going on a date w/ K makes me feel better that I've not been on 25 dates my whole life, let alone in the last month."Serrephimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01860746853228891590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1123004622860700912005-08-02T10:43:00.000-07:002005-08-02T10:43:00.000-07:00hi anonymous,oh were you? one of the 25 i mean? ...hi anonymous,<BR/><BR/>oh were you? one of the 25 i mean? care to share with anyone where we went or what i wore? or who we met or what was ordered?<BR/><BR/>because i can't imagine you're for real.<BR/><BR/>though if you are, i might have to wonder why you seem so bitter...<BR/><BR/>*ahem*kristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00879301751663532121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1123004565752144602005-08-02T10:42:00.000-07:002005-08-02T10:42:00.000-07:00LOL!"Mr. One of the 25" must either be a troll... ...LOL!<BR/><BR/>"Mr. One of the 25" must either be a troll... or, despite not getting the URL from K, was obsessed enough to stalk her online!riseyphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16811155635130239239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1123004336149645562005-08-02T10:38:00.000-07:002005-08-02T10:38:00.000-07:00Sour grapes, Mr. One of the 25?Sour grapes, Mr. One of the 25?Serrephimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01860746853228891590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1123003724838097372005-08-02T10:28:00.000-07:002005-08-02T10:28:00.000-07:00I was one of those "25" -- and thankfully was spar...I was one of those "25" -- and thankfully was spared the URL for the blog -- although she did blather on about it incessantly during our one and only (thankfully!) date... I checked it out afterwards -- pretty much captures her life in writing... to say not all that interesting..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122955500379094592005-08-01T21:05:00.000-07:002005-08-01T21:05:00.000-07:00Would you really want to date someone that didn't ...Would you really want to date someone that didn't have a sense of humor about themself?<BR/><BR/>but i would be worried that the story you might tell would be as revealing of you as it would be of the person you are writing about...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122946919163780092005-08-01T18:41:00.000-07:002005-08-01T18:41:00.000-07:00I think you should just tell us now... You'll prob...I think you should just tell us now... You'll probably just tell us eventually anyways, I mean you already posted the contents of my PRIVATE email to you...<BR/><BR/>Sincerely,<BR/>King OdAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122924557293253552005-08-01T12:29:00.000-07:002005-08-01T12:29:00.000-07:00Put the world on notice....Show up to the date in ...Put the world on notice....Show up to the date in this <A HREF="http://www.thinkgeek.com/images/products/front/blogging.jpg" REL="nofollow">t-shirt</A>.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122918421353768682005-08-01T10:47:00.000-07:002005-08-01T10:47:00.000-07:00I think you should go out with Jake, 'cause he spe...I think you should go out with Jake, 'cause he spends, like, $8000 on EACH date!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122915203360672032005-08-01T09:53:00.000-07:002005-08-01T09:53:00.000-07:00Keep doing what you're doing. If the date turns o...Keep doing what you're doing. If the date turns out to be a good one, the only schlump you'll be blogging about is you. You could, if you wanted, take a short cut. Have the prospective date call me first. The downside, of course, is that you'd never date again. Love, Dad.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122914353572943492005-08-01T09:39:00.000-07:002005-08-01T09:39:00.000-07:00Change the names and other identifying details and...Change the names and other identifying details and write about everything else as is. None of us will know the person if we pass them on the street.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122908972800571542005-08-01T08:09:00.000-07:002005-08-01T08:09:00.000-07:00Sometimes its a passive aggressive way to talk abo...Sometimes its a passive aggressive way to talk about relationship troubles you might have lol! If they read it in your blog they seem to care more, cus 'others' read it. That has been my experience at least!Fizzgighttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12086526805778452531noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122904758743897732005-08-01T06:59:00.000-07:002005-08-01T06:59:00.000-07:00My latest date complained when I didn't blog about...My latest date complained when I <I>didn't</I> blog about our date. And then when I mentioned him kind of offhandedly in a couple entries, he complained that I took the two rudest things he said to inspire me. Eh whatever. I blogged about the last date and he shut up about it. He especially shut up when he read the part about where I saw a guy I, um, "dated" coming out of a club and didn't mention it. Oops.Jesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12009368784795343053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122901179572250712005-08-01T05:59:00.000-07:002005-08-01T05:59:00.000-07:00I'm totally with Sweetone. Don't tell him about th...I'm totally with Sweetone. Don't tell him about the blog. Frankly, that's a little TMI before the first date. Don't you want him to figure out things on his own? You are ruining the mystery. Especially since there is a picture of your ass on your blog.<BR/><BR/>And boys, they are dumb. They need mystery to be interested. Sad but true.Ashbloemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02792652749337220427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122883077065621652005-08-01T00:57:00.000-07:002005-08-01T00:57:00.000-07:00Post it...use first names...like someone else said...Post it...use first names...like someone else said, if they can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen...just beware...because, he too, might be a blogger and you know some people are just plain mean!Jimmyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00381285830021222492noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122882879278352702005-08-01T00:54:00.000-07:002005-08-01T00:54:00.000-07:00Ideas:Use a fake name. If he's a good guy, you'll ...Ideas:<BR/><BR/>Use a fake name. If he's a good guy, you'll write good things, no one will know who it is but him, and he'll be happy to read about it. If he sucks, no one will know who it is, and it's his fault he sucked, so it doesn't matter if he reads it.<BR/><BR/>Or, create a livejournal (in addition to this). Then, you can allow your friends and your IIFs to read it, but not let the boys read it. that would be excellent.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122868332465422762005-07-31T20:52:00.000-07:002005-07-31T20:52:00.000-07:00you should start another blog about your dating an...you should start another blog about your dating and just not put their names on it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122864284825447712005-07-31T19:44:00.001-07:002005-07-31T19:44:00.001-07:00It's not like you're mentioning names. It's your r...It's not like you're mentioning names. It's your right to blog! (and our right to want more)Gunngirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17651095260383123801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122864044445727302005-07-31T19:40:00.000-07:002005-07-31T19:40:00.000-07:00As someone who previously lived in Ess Eff, but pr...As someone who previously lived in Ess Eff, but probably didn't have the strength to do that much dating in a month (Yikes! I guess I spent too much time in the Occidental Bar and Grill...mmmnnn whiskey)). <BR/><BR/>Bring it on...The blog is part of you ...(and this is just filler between the exercise updates...right?)<BR/><BR/>Go for it!t.https://www.blogger.com/profile/08223644179631682557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122863455789531482005-07-31T19:30:00.000-07:002005-07-31T19:30:00.000-07:00i don't think you should give them your blog url b...i don't think you should give them your blog url before the first date. <BR/><BR/>you can give them sufficient info about you in an email to help them decide whether they are interested in meeting you. <BR/><BR/>most first dates do not result in second dates, so a) those people do not need to know as much about you as your blog conveys and b) you deserve to have those bad first (and last) dates redeemed by turning them into entertainment for the masses! <BR/><BR/>i respect your policy about whom you will write in here about, but i do think that someone you spend a few hours with on a first/last date is acceptable fodder -- as long as you write it in such a way that hardly anyone would ever guess it's them.<BR/><BR/>if giving them your blog address means you cannot write about 25 different events in the past month that you otherwise would, it's not worth giving it to them! <BR/><BR/>save the blog address at least for the 2nd date. :)<BR/><BR/>i don't know what to do about the dates you've already had with people who know about your blog... personally, i couldn't do that to them -- write something that will inevitably be funny at their expense. you could make a special secret blog 'o dates and only give the address out to people who email you...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10136851.post-1122861829764777092005-07-31T19:03:00.001-07:002005-07-31T19:03:00.001-07:00I agree with 'nilla, you can't tell us that you ha...I agree with 'nilla, you can't tell us that you have all this juicy stuff and not share. That's like telling me you got me this really cool Christmas present and then you decide to not give me the gift. So please share with us, come on PRETTY PLEASE!No-Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03905507714165534880noreply@blogger.com